Dating Advice #213 -  Abroad and Alone

Dating Advice #213 – Abroad and Alone

Dear Rosie & Sherry, I have been married for just over a year and moved abroad to be with my husband. Before we got engaged my husband was an angel — loving, caring, affectionate. After the engagement I started to see a different side to him. He started to blackmail me, and would threaten: “Unless…

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Do I Send My Child To Study In Israel?

Do I Send My Child To Study In Israel?

The war in the Mideast this summer has brought back to the forefront the issue of travel to Israel, even as students by the thousands are leaving for a year of study in Israel. As the head of the Alisa Flatow Memorial Scholarship that provides scholarships for study in Israel, I can testify that we…

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Infertility and a Crisis of Faith

Infertility and a Crisis of Faith

My wife and I have been trying to conceive for the last six years. We have had numerous IVF treatments and IUI treatments. During this time, I became observant and tried hard to maintain my faith. After this past Rosh Hashana, my wife and I finally conceived. We were pregnant with triplets. Sad to say,…

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Adar 2

Imagine a situation: you have a fine home, a well-paying job, a comfortable car, and a substantial retirement annuity. If you do a single thoughtless act, you will lose everything you have worked to achieve: home, job, car, and savings. What kind of precautions would you take to avoid even the remotest possibility of incurring…

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Adar 1

The Rabbi of Kotzk had a unique interpretation for this verse. “Yes,” he said, “eat of the labor of your hands, but not of your heart and soul. Of course you must work with your hands to earn your bread, but while your hands must work, do not allow your entire being to be absorbed…

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Shevat 30

Lashon hara (gossip or slander) is not necessarily untruthful. The Torah forbids saying something derogatory about a person even if it is completely true. One of the best guidelines to decide what you should or should not say is to ask: “Does it make a difference who might overhear it?” If it is something that…

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Shevat 27

It is noteworthy that the Hebrew words for these types of distress are all in the singular: an anguish, a grief, a sighing. Many years ago, when my brother was gravely ill, I visited a rabbi in Israel and asked for a berachah(blessing) for his recovery. As I left, the rabbi said to me, “May…

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Shevat 29

Our time is finite, and therefore every moment is precious and irreplaceable. Yet sometimes we waste precious moments because we do not have something constructive to do. Some people carry a small book with them, so that if they must wait for a bus or sit in a waiting room, they can use the time…

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